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When Cookie Howard walks across the Prudential Center stage Tuesday at ��Ʒ���˸������� University’s Winter 2026 Commencement, the moment will mark far more than the completion of a degree. It will represent decades of perseverance, reinvention and faith��– through foster care, single motherhood, entrepreneurship, homelessness and disability.

A GED earner, Howard will receive her Bachelor of Arts in Family Science and Human Development during the College for Community Health portion of the ceremony. Her journey embodies the spirit of Montclair’s graduates and mission: students who broaden access to opportunity and uplift others along the way.

A Mother’s Dream Becomes a National Brand

Howard became a single mother at 16. Raised in Harlem in the foster care system, she wanted a different future for her young son, Cory Nieves so the two moved to Englewood, New Jersey, navigating daily life by bus. When 5-year-old Cory wished for a car to help them get around, he came up with an idea – selling hot chocolate and then cookies.

began at home. What followed was extraordinary. The mother-and-son business gained national attention, appearing in local, regional and national media, including and appearances on and the reality TV show . At its height, the company, which resulted in Howard’s Cookie moniker, reportedly surpassed $1 million in sales.

And then it all crumbled.

Loss, Homelessness and Starting Again

The COVID-19 pandemic halted sales. The business unraveled. Howard and her son lost their home and eventually moved into a shelter.

“I made it to the top and fell back down,” Howard says. “That’s a part of being an entrepreneur; it’s part of being human. I just pray that with the grace of God things will get better.”

Despite the ups and downs, Howard refused to give up – on herself or on education.

Returning to School Against the Odds

While still operating and working odd jobs, Howard, 37, enrolled at Montclair as a non-traditional student, navigating financial instability, a documented learning disability and the daily realities of survival. There were moments when continuing felt impossible, particularly when her car – the 2015 Ford Escape gifted to her on Ellen – broke down and she again faced eviction and homelessness.

“These were times when everything felt dark, and I honestly didn’t see a way out,” she says. “But by God’s grace, I was able to keep my apartment. I held on to the little bit of light I had left, and somehow, it shined right through.”

Melissa Pecora, Howard’s EOF counselor and academic advisor, watched that perseverance firsthand. “Cookie has overcome countless challenges with remarkable resilience and determination. Despite the obstacles she’s faced, she continues to rise above them and has shown that challenges can become opportunities for future success,” she says. “I have watched her excel academically while achieving significant personal milestones.”

“Cookie exemplifies a unique balance of grit, creativity and unrelenting drive. She is an inspiration to all scholars, particularly those adult learners who may be reluctant to enroll in college.” ~ Daniel Jean, Associate�� Provost for Educational Opportunity and Success Programs

Three Buses, No Internet, No Excuses

Unable to afford the car repairs or an internet connection, she left home three hours early, taking three buses to campus to make her 9 a.m. class. Using the internet on campus, Howard routinely stayed late into the evening, juggling class assignments and her internship and leadership of the Adult Student Advocacy Program (ASAP).

From her warmth and humor, few would know her struggles, as her light also illuminated others.

“I’ve had students come to the office asking for her or mentioning how much she helped them,” says Meghan Hearns, director of the Disability Resource Center, where Howard is a constant presence.

Advocacy as a Calling

Howard’s impact at Montclair extends far beyond the classroom. She became a mentor and presenter for students connected to the Disability Resource Center, spoke at the Disability Awareness Month flag-raising ceremony, and earned the prestigious Charlotte W. Newcombe Scholarship for Students with Disabilities.

Her most lasting contribution, however, is the Adult Student Advocacy Program – a support network she founded to help non-traditional students navigate school while balancing work, family and life challenges.

“Adult students have a lot of stuff that’s going on in our lives,” Howard says. “We sometimes feel like no one cares, but we have to open our mouths and say, ‘Hey, I need help.’ People want to help you.”

A Tribe That Wouldn’t Let Her Quit

Despite the hardship, Howard persisted with the help of the people around her.

“It took a tribe of people to get involved and say, ‘We believe in you,’” she says. “That gave me the confidence to continue.”

Support came from people on and off campus. Howard credits and is grateful for the many who helped her, including Associate Vice President and Dean of Students Margaree Coleman-Carter, whom she credits for making her internship possible, Office of Student Belonging Assistant Dean Jonnine DeLoatch, and a host of�� professors, advisors and even University Police – some of whom, she says, bought her meals, pitched in for car repairs or other needs. She also credits her church family at Mount Olive Baptist Church in Hackensack, some of whom will be at Commencement, for helping her get to the graduation stage.

“They just didn’t give up on me,” Howard says. “I kept holding on, and I’m happy I did.”

Academic Advisor Natalia Pizarro-Valencia credits Howard’s “hard work, perseverance and commitment to learning” to accomplish her goal. “It’s been a truly humbling experience to support Cookie throughout her academic journey. Witnessing her effort, growth and dedication has been both inspiring and rewarding.”

Looking Ahead, Giving Back

Howard’s plans to continue her post-graduate studies. She’s considering attending Drew University, where she’s been accepted. Her goals include community activism, philanthropy and humanitarian work – “pastoral work without the collar,” as she puts it.

“I want to work with single mothers and at-risk kids,” she says. “That’s why I’m going for my Master of Divinity.”

As she crosses the stage January 13, Howard’s journey affirms that with resilience – and the right support – students at ��Ʒ���˸������� University can transform adversity into achievement.

Story by Sylvia A. Martinez Photography by University Photographer Mike Peters.

This story is part of a series celebrating ��Ʒ���˸������� University’s graduates – students who embody the University’s mission to broaden access to exceptional learning opportunities and contribute to the common good.

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