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Love Bombing or Red Flag? Spot a Romance Scam Fast

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A cosmic-themed "Breaking News: Valentine's Edition" banner featuring an alien and astronaut holding a heart.

Roses are red, violets are blue,
Someone might fall for scamming鈥 don鈥檛 let it be you.

As Valentine鈥檚 Day rolls around, many people are looking for love 鈥 but so are scammers. Romance scams are on the rise, and college students and staff are not immune. These scams can leave victims not just heartbroken, but also out hundreds or even thousands of dollars.


How Romance Scams Work

Scammers usually start with a message on:

  • A dating app (like Tinder, Hinge, Bumble)

  • Social media (Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat)

  • Or even through DMs on gaming or study platforms

They鈥檒l build a connection fast 鈥 complimenting you, sharing personal stories, and talking about a 鈥渇uture鈥 together. But there鈥檚 a catch: you鈥檒l never meet them in person. Eventually, they鈥檒l ask for something.

Common red flags:

  • They say they鈥檙e deployed, overseas, or traveling and can鈥檛 meet

  • They claim to have an emergency (hospital bill, visa issue, stolen wallet)

  • They ask for gift cards, crypto, wire transfers, or Zelle payments

  • They want to move the conversation off-platform quickly

  • They love you鈥 after just a few messages


How to Protect Yourself

  1. Take It Slow
    Real relationships take time. Be wary of anyone who moves fast emotionally or financially.

  2. Verify Before You Trust
    Reverse image search their profile pics. Video chat before you get too invested.

  3. Never Send Money or Gifts
    No matter how sad the story is 鈥 if you haven鈥檛 met them in person, don鈥檛 send funds.

  4. Be Skeptical of Secrecy
    Scammers often say 鈥渄on鈥檛 tell anyone鈥 鈥 that鈥檚 a major red flag.

  5. Trust Your Instincts
    If it feels off, it probably is. Talk to a friend, family member, or coworker before making decisions.


Already Shared Something? You鈥檙e Not Alone.

If you think you鈥檝e been targeted by a romance scam:

  • Stop contact immediately

  • Don鈥檛 send more money (even if they threaten you)

  • Report it to your bank and to the platform


Real Love Isn鈥檛 a Secret or a Scam

Whether you’re swiping right or just sharing memes with a new crush, make sure your heart 鈥 and your data 鈥 are protected.

This Valentine鈥檚 Day, stay safe, stay smart, and don鈥檛 let a scammer steal your heart or your bank account.


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